Date: 2008-08-07 09:58 pm (UTC)
I consider a hand job to be sex. I consider two people pleasuring themselves while in the same room to be sex. I think of dry humping as sex. I don't think it's a language thing so much as it's a mind set thing--since I'm a lesbian, none of the sex I have involves a penis, but I know I'm definitely involving sex.

Princess Bananas, on the other hand, constantly says things like, "Well, they've given each other blowjobs but they haven't had sex." And then I say, "Um. A blowjob is sex." And she'll say, "I know, but you know what I mean. They haven't had the full on sex." And I'll sigh wearily and explain to her that just because the hetero majority thinks that sex has to mean penis in vagina or anus doesn't mean that that's what sex really is.
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