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Most of you probably won't be able to watch or understand this documentary, but it made me cry out of frustration and I really need to share. I urge you to watch it if you can. The second half is filmed in the USA, so it's in English with Dutch subtitles.

"Beperkt Houdbaar" ('Limited Shelflife' or 'Over The Hill' (official English title)

Documentary maker Sunny Bergman is 34 and scared of losing her beauty, while at the same time she's angry about how women are judged on their looks all the time. She talks to editors of fashion-magazines, psychologists, plastic surgeons and 'patients'. Not only about botox, big(ger) boobs and tummytugs, but also about laser labiareduction. Yeah, you've read that right: as soon as you look more like a woman than a girl: get ready to be cut.
Sunny even gets into that lovely gynaecologists chair herself and films the surgeon between her legs during the consult. He tells her everything about her body is wrong and she is definitely a 'candidate' for surgery. FYI: Sunny is a very healthy woman and 'normal' looking mom of two kids.
What made me cry was the interview with a fifteen year old girl (15. years. old) and her mom who -based on (photoshopped!!!) pictures in Playboy magazine- were convinced there was something wrong with the girl's vagina and she needed to be operated on. Her mom was surprised that her medical insurance didn't want to pay for this 'neccessary' operation on the 'disformity' of her child.

It made me cry and curse at the same time. What the fuck?

Date: 2007-04-01 01:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bflyw.livejournal.com
It's sick! It really is! I'm really concerned about bringing up a girl in a society that is so focused upon looks. I know I have my problem with self esteem and lots of is is about looks, and I want to work really hard on changing that in mylef (not how I look but how I feel about myself) so I don't give that to Amaya. It takes a lot to to love yourself in a society that feeds on peoples urge to "fix themselves".

Date: 2007-04-01 02:27 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] beelikej.livejournal.com
It's scary to think how much the general opinion about how women need to present themselves have changed. You'd think the women's liberation movement (feminists) would've had a more positive effect, but apparently it all got turned around in the past couple of years, with this whole obsession about beauty. :-(
My motto: if it ain't broken, don't fix it.

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